10 Books for Parents With Special Kids

My apologies for being late with my Top 10 list today! I was out of town, helping my daughter deliver this:IMG_2419

So I’m a little sleep deprived, and more than a little bit sore from wrestling the laboring pregnant girl for 12 hours. :) Baby Girl was 7#2 oz. and 20” long. She’s healthy, nursing beautifully, and very bright eyed. I’m a happy Gramma.

So, I get a pass right? ;)

Now on to what we’re here for….

 

10 Books for Parents With Special Kids

1.  Carly’s Voice: Breaking Through Autismis about Carly Fleischmann, a young woman with severe autism who discovered a way to talk to her family, and the world, and hasn’t been silent since. If you don’t follow her on Facebook, you should. And read her book. She’s amazing.

2.  In Jesse’s Shoes is a sweet book that you can use to help your “normal” kids and others to understand how special our special needs kids are. We own and love this book.

3.  Social Rules for Kids isn’t specifically for special needs kids, but it could be! This book provides a way to purposefully teach your special kids—or any kids—the appropriate ways to respond to things in many varied social situations, from home to work, to family gatherings and beyond.

4.  Homeschooling the Challenging Child: A Practical Guide is a helpful guide with lots of ideas to get you through—or continue to teach—your child with special needs. Often we know homeschooling is best for a particular child, but the challenge of doing so can be a surprise. Take heart! It can be done.

5.  Too Loud, Too Bright, Too Fast, Too Tight: What to Do If You Are Sensory Defensive in an Overstimulating Worldoffers hope for the sensory sensitive kids and strategies for parents to help them.

6. Why Does Izzy Cover Her Ears? Dealing with Sensory Overloadis another book written for kids, to help them understand those who are different from them.

7. The Out-of-Sync Childis probably the best book on special needs, and particularly on sensory issues in kids, that I have ever read. I own it, I reread it about once a year, and I love it. Read it and when you recognize your child in the stories, take heart. It’s not a child manual, but it could be considered one.

8. No More Meltdowns: Positive Strategies for Managing and Preventing Out-Of-Control Behavior This book gives some helpful de-activation strategies as well as proactive parenting tips to help prevent what some parents live with as a daily reality.

9. Toilet Training for Individuals with Autism or Other Developmental Issues Potty training, eagerly discussed at length by parents of 1-3 year olds, becomes a taboo subject as children reach school age and others just don’t understand why you can’t seem to potty train your child. If you have an older child who isn’t toilet trained yet, here is some encouragement for you. You aren’t alone. (I was one of you. Feel free to email me if you are struggling.)

10. Views from Our Shoes: Growing Up With a Brother or Sister With Special NeedsIn all of our seeking out resources to help us with our differently abled children, we need to keep in mind that being the brother or sister of a special needs kid can be tough. 45 Siblings speak up here.

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How I Saved Over $500 in One Week

How I Saved $500 In One WeekIf you’ve ever looked at your budget and wondered where all of your money went, you know where I’m at. The paychecks pay the bills. We have a little extra for a coffee or a pizza once in a while, but that’s it. It seems like no matter how hard we try, we just don’t seem to get ahead. If you can’t seem to put enough money in savings to build up a decent emergency fund, take a hard look at your budget.

Eating out? Well, you know that’s not a necessity, and sometimes we fall into the rut. But what other budget busters are there? As I studied our expenses, one thing stood out to me.

The cell phone bill.

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How the big cell phone companies can get away with charging what they do is beyond me. The trouble is, we pay it. We pay it every single month because we need the phone, we want the convenience of our smartphones, and we think we have no choice. We just pay their ransom.

In February, my 18 year old’s phone contract ended—the contract that was attached to mine. I told her to check out her options for a phone of her own, because my days of paying $136 a month were ending. I was looking forward to a much cheaper phone bill. I had a rude awakening when the bill didn’t go down by half, as I expected it to. Even though I get a 22% corporate discount from Verizon through my work, it STILL came out to over $100/mo for one phone.

She looked at Verizon, AT&T, Spring, and T-Mobile’s contract plans. All were similarly priced to the excess. Verizon even wanted her to put a $500 deposit down because she doesn’t have any credit. Like THAT was going to happen! Ha! Then she checked out some no-contract plans, and found Virgin Mobile.

Their plans are cheap! $35-55 per month, even for a smartphone. She cashed her paycheck, purchased the phone she wanted (A really nice HTC Evo 4G), activated it, and was on her way. That got me thinking. I did some calculations.

Verizon, $103/mo X 18 mos. left on my contract= $1854

 

Virgin Mobile $45/mo X 18 mos. = $810

New Smartphone for Virgin         = $190

Verizon’s cancellation fee           = $300

                                                 TOTAL COST            $1300

                                                 TOTAL SAVINGS        $554

That’s all it took to get me to kill my expensive cell phone contract. I bought a phone, ported my number, chose the $45/mo plan, and cancelled my contract with the big V. Even with paying their early cancellation fee I am still saving over $500 over the next 18 months.

And beyond that? It’s cake. A $696 savings per year for me, at $58 per month.

Compare what you’ve got with what you could get. My contract for my Verizon smartphone included 450 minutes, unlimited texts, and 2Gb of data for around $103/mo. My new plan with Virgin Mobile includes 1200 minutes, unlimited texts, and unlimited data for $48/mo including tax..

If you’re sick of paying the ransom to your cellular phone company, investigate your options. Virgin Mobile uses all of Sprint’s towers, so as long as you have Sprint service in your area, you’ll have Virgin service.I made sure I would have service on our Hawaiian vacation prior to porting my number, and I had NO service issues there at all.

There are other no-contract companies. Most even carry the iPhone, if you want one of those. They all carry nice Samsung Galaxy SII and Blackberries too. And many of those are on sale right now for 15%-25% off, through May 25th.

You do have options. You don’t have to offer your firstborn child just to have a decent smartphone, and you don’t have to bust your budget to do it, either. If you’ve got a teen asking for a phone, one of Virgin’s feature phones plus a $35 plan will take care of them very nicely.

Have you done it? Have you cancelled your pricey cell phone contract? Tell me about it!

Disclosure: I like Virgin Mobile’s plans so much that I became an affiliate. They did not ask me to write this review, nor did they compensate me for it. I do receive a small commission if you click one of the links and make a purchase.

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Sunday Worship: Shadows

When shadows fall on us
We will not fear
We will remember

When darkness falls on us
We will not fear
We will remember

~ David Crowder

I couldn’t resist this video, with a little LeCrae in there, it just makes me smile. As always, please click over to the site to view this week’s video.

Have an amazing Sunday! (And pray we will have a new grandbaby today! She’s a week overdue!!)

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What’s That Song, Or How to Torture Your Mom

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Puff the Magic Dragon lives by the sea…

Bananas in Pajamas, are going down the stairs…

Her name is Rio and she dances on the sand….

Millions of peaches, peaches for free…

Oh the songs. All it takes is a couple of words. Two notes. Not much. Just enough to allow my daughter and I to torture each other with songs that get stuck in our heads. It’s fun, it can be funny, and it can be very, very annoying.

“Oh man, I can’t get that stupid song out of my head!”

Wait for it. Wait for it. You know you want to ask.

“What song?”

HA! That’s all that it takes and her day is blown. Or mine is. Because you know you just have to ask what song, and you  know that it’ll probably get stuck in your head too. It is just TOO easy.

I’m reading a book man, I’m reading a book, don’t you ever interrupt me when I’m reading a book…

This game, this audio torment that she and I pass back and forth, is what we call fun. Sick, mean fun.

So let me hum you a few notes and see what happens…. ;)

STOP.

 

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